My New Corset

As one of the many little things I decided to do to be a better sissy, I bought a corset. I have an older one but this one is so nicely constricting. It wasn't cheap, $240, but it is tight lacing and has eight garters. I have been wearing it weekly to work. The corset serves as a constant reminder of my sissification as I work throughout the day. It is impossible not to notice the tug of my garters on my stockings as I walk. Notice that I am also wearing ruffled black panties. They are so cute too.

I went to purchase the corset after work so I was dressed as a male. Before I went into the store, I took off my socks and shoes and slipped on a pair of high heels. I also donned some lipstick and lots of jewelry. Beneath my male slacks I wore black panties, a garter belt and stockings. I walked around as a male in high heels ad selected the corset I wanted to try on. I tried two different sizes. When I found the one I thought would work I asked the young salesgirl if she could help me lace it up. She laced me up quite tightly and I asked her to keep making it as tight as possible. I told her I would take the corset and wear it home, and I did so after attaching the eight garters of the corset to my stockings.

I wish to remind you all how much I like being a pantywaist sissy male and wearing womens lingerie. It is such a turn-on for me and I love displaying myself publicly in lingerie. A corset gives such a feeling of constriction and submissiveness. It is hard to find any item of lingerie more erotic. This constricting garment is of course topped off by the tugging of the garters against the hose. It feels so erotic and sexy. I love being a sissy.

Should I be bound?

The first photo is of me in lingerie on the couch. The ties are nearby and I know they will be used on me. The next photo is of me on the bed in light bondage. Being in this position makes me feel vulnerable and submissive. I have not pursued bondage, but sometimes I wonder if it would cause me to be a better sissy. There are so many possible directions to go. I don't know whether I should be more of a prancing effeminate sissy in little girl dresses, a prancing french maid, a tied-up sissy doll, an effeminately dressed sissified male, or a more normal femmy girl. Should I have a master, a mistress, take inspirations and ideas from others, get together with other sissies, or wander as a sissy on my own following various paths and ideas?

small sissy lifestyle upgrades

For the past 8 months, I have not posted much on my blog due to lots of long work hours and other commitments. Occasionally I get on a plateau about my sissy activities and now I need to recommit to upgrading my femme lifestyle. Although I live as a girl except at work, there are a lot of little things to do to continually push the envelope of femininity (something you should all do too). Some of the things I plan to do between now and the end of the year are below. They are pre-New Year’s resolutions.

Wear my hair longer. Consider getting a perm. In fact I just got a perm this Saturday. It looks great for me as a girl. I don’t know how it will look when I dress as a male for work, but we will see. Last time I had a perm, some of the women at work noticed and commented. In any case, I got the perm, I like it, and everyone will see it. I intend to continue doing a lot of little things to continually look more feminine, even as a male as work.

I hereby commit to getting my ears pierced over Christmas. My wife doesn’t approve of me doing this, but I am going to do it anyway. It is about time I had my ears pierced.

I need to be wearing stockings and a garter belt to work more often. It will remind me during the day that I am a sissy. This is something all us sissies need to do more.

I need to go back to DareWare (fetish clothing store) to check out femme fetish clothing while dressed as a slightly effeminate male. I would go after work in male work attire but wear stockings, have on 3” high heels, jewelry & lipstick. It will be obvious I am a sissy. I need to buy a new garter belt. I will try it on and wear it home with a pair of new stockings that I will also buy.

I need to buy a new tightly laced corset with garters. I should do this as an effeminately dressed male. Erotic Cabaret would be the best choice for this. When I buy a corset, I should wear stockings with a nice new garter belt and ruffled panties, all in black. I have tried on corsets in the past, and the salesgirls have always helped laced them up for me.

Since I dress as a girl at home all the time, I should dress more femmy as a girl. Specifically I should do more pinks. I have a cute outfit of pink capris and coordinating pink top that I just love. I should focus more on these types of outfits as a girl.

Fix up the spare room and make it very femme. I will use lacy curtains with flowers and get fashion pictures of women or pictures of high heels, accessories, etc. The room should be made over the top feminine. I don’t care who sees it, even my parents. This will be my study.

This is only a partial list of items, but are a good start for the rest of the year. I also need to upgrade my sissy attire and lingerie. That will come next. I am open to ideas for sissy attire and lingerie I should have or get more of.

Traveling en femme

Recently I went on an Alaska cruise with my family. Of course I went as a girl only. My wife was concerned about needing to show my passport as we went across the US Canadian borders and suggested that I dress as a male for that part of the trip. But I said I would do no such thing. I refused to wear or even have any male attire for the trip. Recently I had to renew my passport. I had several photos taken and chose one that had my longish hair slightly fluffed up so it could be more femme. I went through both US and Canadian passport control without any problems.

The only other minor events that happened were that, one security person checking my boarding pass asked, “Are you Kevin Grey?” I told him yes and that was it. Another time I set off the metal detector. The male security agent told me to step aside and called out “I need a female pat-down please.” A women security guard came over and patted me down around my bust and waist. She noted the metal in my push-up bra and then let me go. I was certainly flattered and thrilled to get a female pat down.

As I reported in earlier blogs I also have a driver’s license with my hair slightly fluffed up and wearing make-up and jewelry and a blouse. This is just a femmy male ID.

In addition, I have a state ID card with me fully dressed as a girl with a long wig, make-up, jewelry, and totally femmed. All the documents have my real name as it would be illegal otherwise. I use this femme ID for domestic travel. It is totally legal and OK to do this in Texas. When I use it for domestic travel, even air travel, no one cares because the picture matches me and the name on my ID matches the ticket name. No one ever says anything about this and I often get called ma’am.

Date with a man while dressed as french maid

I will continue to relate some of my experiences dating men, past and recent. Many men I dated did not know that I'm a t-girl and I had to be very careful to tease and please them without them finding out. It was very risky and quite thrilling.

A number of years ago, I dated a straight guy, J, who didn't know I'm a tgirl. I used to meet him at his townhouse and them we would take his car to go out. We went mostly to clubs. One winter evening I came to his back door wearing a white sweater coat which was mid thigh length. J could see me bundled up in my coat and in high heels and black hose. Of course I was all dolled up with wig make-up and nicely polished nails too. I was dressed in the outfit shown.

When he came to the door, I threw my coat open and revealed that I was wearing a very short black and white French maids dress with a cute apron. His expression was priceless and made me thrilled. I gently nudged him backwards and told him that tonight I was his maid and it was my job to serve him. As a maid, it was my job. He should just sit back and relax. Thank goodness he went along. I undressed him and sucked his cock. Afterwards, I changed into another outfit I brought and fixed my make-up. Then we went out to a club. J still wants to take me out but I had to stop because he was getting progressively closer to finding out about me.

On other occasions he had me out of my dress, kissing him in my lingerie, specifically a short black lacy slip. I felt so vulnerable standing there kissing him while wearing only lingerie, but it also thrilled me. I hated to stop dating him but I knew I must. It was getting progressively harder to hold him off and not let him find out about my little secret.

Date with Umbrella Bill

As a sissy I have dated men on occasion. I pass well in public and sometimes I have gone out with men who did not know that I was not a real woman. It makes me feel so feminine and sexy to be desired as a woman by a man. Sometimes I let the situation get carried away because a man sexually desiring me really feeds my feminine ego. Then I have to do some fast talking and fast hand movements to extract myself from the situation before I am found out. It is a situation which is both exciting and scary.

Umbrella Bill
One night at a piano bar, a guy convinced me to follow him home. Stupid me, I must have had too much to drink. What did I think he wanted? I didn't think. We went to his townhouse and he immediately started kissing me and dragging me up the stairs to this bedroom. We kissed and fondled on the way up. I had to be real careful where I let him touch me or he would have probably beaten the crap out of me for not being a real woman like he though I was. I loved feeling his hard cock pressed up against me. It made me feel so femme and submissive. I really caressed his cock with my hands and when he pressed it against me. Finally he started to undress me and I started making excuses that I had to leave. The situation was geting out of my control. His cock was so hard and he said, "You can't leave me like this". Wow, I realized how it is to get a man hot and excited, and how difficult it is to get a man to stop. I relented and grabbed him by the hand and took him to the bedroom and said something about taking care of him. I undid his pants and told him to lie back and preceeded to suck his cock until he came in my mouth. Thank goodnees he was satisfied with a blow job. I have found that most men are. Just as long as they get their rocks off, they are happy. For some reason I can't remember, this guy Bill had a lot of umbrellas. On the way out he offered me one. He said, "I'm not offering you an umbrella for a blow job, I just have so many, I thought you might like one." Now I remember him as umbrealla Bill. I haven't seen him since.

This was a really dangerous situation but I loved satisfying a man without getting any pleasure myself. It was a real thrill.

Encourage sissy tammi's sissification

Goddess Sandra is wife and Mistress to sissy tammi. She has asked me to observe tammi's femininization and sissification, and offer suggestions based on my own experiences as a pantywaist sissy. sissy tammi (not sissy tammy from previous posts) doesn't enjoy wearing women's clothes but follows Goddess Sandra's directives out of devotion.

sissy tammi states, "i really don’t enjoy wearing women’s clothes. i find quite humiliating and embarrassing to dress as woman and unfortunately that is why Goddess Sandra requires it. It pleases Her to see me dressed in such a manner. i do not enjoy dressing as a woman it is very difficult and typically quite uncomfortable".

Please check out sissy tammi's blog (listed on right side of blog) and encourage her to indulge deeply and embrace her femininization. sissy tammi has served at several functions hosted by Dommes and there is so much more we should know about them. Goddess Sandra want us to post comments and suggestions, so please listen to this Esteemed Mistress and add your comments.

Sissy Attire in Public

Previously I posted that I have taken several friends out as sissified males in public. Also I have gone out with a friend where we were both dolled up in sissy outfits. See this photos or my sissy girlfriend, sissy tammy and I in public. This was sissy tammi's first outing in such attire. We bought frilly petticoats at DareWare to go with the outfits we were wearing and it gave them so much more flair, literally. The store photo is from DareWare.

Afterwards, we went to a gay bar and as usual, I always insist my sissy girlfriend tips the stud male dancer well. I certainly do. Now I want to see all you other pantywaist sissies dressed like this shopping at a at a fetish clothing store or at a gay bar. Don't forget to tip the stud dancer well and compliment them. Tell them something like, "I love you body, you make me feel weak and submissive".

Sissy males in public

I love being a pantywaist sissy and it thrills me to see other guys turned into sissy boys or sissy girls like me. I think more boys should be all dolled up as girls and oh so pretty. In the past I have encouraged four different sissies by taking them out as sissified male in public for their first times, while i dressed as a girl. We always went to fetish clothing stores and gay bars. We generally went to a place like Ross Dress for less so that the sissified guy would take skirts to the mens dressing room and try them on, and then come out into the store to model them for me. There is usually a salesgirl watching and I say something like, "Don't mind him, he is just a sissy." Of course i make sure to say this in front of the sissy boy as he is modeling his skirt in the store.

My dress code for these sissy outing is that my sissy boyfriend must wear only women's clothing. Typical items for sissy are panties, unpadded bra, garter belt with stockings, women's slacks and a blouse. Mid to high heels are also required. Sissy may not wear a wig or padded bra so he is recognized as a sissified male.

One time sissy natahsa and I went to Erotic Cabaret clothing store and bought ruffled panties, garter belt with stockings and sissy socks. After ringing up the sale, the salesgirl started to put the purchases in the bag. I said, "That won't be necessary, sissy is going to wear them home." Sissy boy natasha was highly embarrassed but did as instructed.

Going out as girl allows one to hide behind a wig and total femme outfit. These experiences as a sissified male are important because it helps break one's male ego and creates a stark realization that you are an effeminate sissy male. It is also an experience that is scary and humiliating, but is also highly erotic. If you haven't tried this, I highly recommend it. After al, you are a sissy aren't you?

Traveling as a girl

I recently went on vacation as a girl with my wife. I flew en femme in skirt, blouse and high heels, and since I have legal ID with my name and a totally femme picture and had no problem. Flying en femme was a first for me. There was no problem as long as the name on ID and ticket match and picture on ID and how I look match. I could have used my drivers license where I was also dressed en femme, but with an effeminate male look.

Where to go from here

Currently I have no Master or Mistress, but continue to live 2/3 of the time as a woman so I dress nearly all the time. Right now I am in limbo and not following any particular direction. But it is a leisurely pace and not too bad.

Perhaps I should do something different like doing public errands while wearing my maid's outfit with full petticoats. Maybe I need a new corset to constrict my waist to a very ultra feminine form. We'll see. Any ideas?

Being one of Miss D's sissies

This is a link to my profile on Miss D's blog. Click on the title of this paragraph.

She is an insightful Domme and I encourage you to go to he blog (link on right). I want to thank Her for for Her encouragement in helping me become th kind of sissy I am today. Check out my sissy profile and see what confessions Miss D has made me provide. Oh I truly love being such a transvestite fairy and being all dolled up as a pretty girl.

Every sissy needs a French maids dress

Yes, every sissy does need a French maids dress. It is a wonderful symbol of a sissy's submissive and servile position. So if you don't have one, you need to get one. If you have pictures, share them. Tell us where they are so we can ooooh and aaaah over them. Sissies should be put on display in their maids outfits, so here are some of mine.

Girly Hair Style

I have instructed my hair stylist to give me a woman's hair style so that I will look femme when I leave the shop. She does a nice job and I am quite pleased when I leave. I have also been learning to do my own hair in a femme style, which I sometimes do. Now I have to pay twice the price for my hair style (women's vs. men's) but I am glad to do it. I told my stylist I plan to grow my hair longer so it will look more feminine.

For work, which is the only time I wear any male clothes, I comb my femme hair style back. So from now on I will have a women's hair style. I just love it!

Be a better sissy

Sissy challenge - Alright it is time for the rest of you pantywaist sissies to become more sissified than before. I have just committed to living en femme at all times except when at work, and I want the rest of you to step up your efforts as well. You assignment, and you will accept it, is to add one new femme item to your routine. That means you should commit to wearing panties every day, if you are not already doing it, or you should start wearing hose, pantyhose or stockings to work twice a week or more. Everyone is in a different place, but now you must commit to stepping up you femme efforts a notch. Then, you are to leave a comment to tell us all what you did.

I have been asked, what femme items one can wear under male clothes to work without problems. First panties and pantyhose are always a safe bet for all us girly bois, so all you pansies should wear these regularly. A garter belt and stockings are also very nice, and do not show as long as you do not wear very light colored slacks. This is an excellent item for sissies because the tug of the garters on the stockings as you walk is a constant reminder what a pansy you are, and they really do not show. This sissy highly recommends stockings and garters. I do it occasionally at work myself. A camisole is also a good bet under many shirts but works best with a heavier fabric or a shirt with a print or dark color. Do not wear a bra unless you are wearing a heavy sweater. They will show. No one may say anything, but they are noticeable. A lightweight corset or waist cincher is also a safe item with the same kind of shirt you would wear with a camisole. These are items that I wear without any difficulty to work and if the rest of you are not, you need to step up you femme routine a notch by adding one or two items, and add a comment to share your commitment, no matter how small. I’m a pantywaist fairy, now you be one too.

Now for those of you who are big time pantywaist faggots, who are further along, please feel free to find a creative way to show us all how sissified you can be by what you wear, where you go out as a sissy, or something you do to be a better pansy. Do something you have not done before. Then tell us about it.

Do this now my sissy sisters. Let us prance in lingerie and heels and cute little dresses. Let us share our experiences and push our limits.

sissy gina's new direction

Wow, since I started dressing 2/3 of the time as a girl about 2 months ago, my head has been spinning. I have been shopping for casual women's clothing and am growing my own hair into a somewhat feminine style with the help of my hair stylist.

I still can't believe I am doing this, but I now go everywhere as a woman except to work. As a woman I have been to the bank, church, stores, restaurants, etc. As soon as I come home I immediately ditch the male slacks and shirt (still wearing pretty lingerie beneath though), and put on my femme attire and some make-up. But I have not been doing new sissy things with Mistress Stacey or anyone else. I am just trying to assimilate my new lifestyle which is no small task. I have been doing a lot more domestic things around home, much to the pleasure of my wife. She now tells others, it is now like her having a wife. So that is my current role, a wife to my wife, and we will see what comes next.

This is really so great because I just love wearing women's clothing. Several people have been urging me to indulge deeply in a more submissive role with a dominant, but that is on hold for now.

sissies must wear skirts

Yes, sissies must wear skirts. That's what Mistress Stacey told me. She said only men wear pants and I am not a man. I am a sissy so I must wear skirts, all the time. In the past, I only went out once a week dressed as a girl, but that is now going to change. From now on, I will wear skirts every day.

I have taken this seriously and am going to do this. This is going to be a profound change in my life and I cannot fully comprehend the implications although it will be intense and overwhelming. I started this a few days ago. I will still wear mens' shirts and slacks to work along with pretty lingerie, women's shoes and socks. Upon arrival at home, there is to be an immediate change into skirts and full feminine attire.

In the past few days, my wife was surprised to see me in skirts each day when she came home (My wife is not my Mistress). She knew I wanted to dress full time when I retired, but this is a big step forward. I told her I needed the practice and experience to see how far I would go in the future. She said OK. Also she said I am a lot more pleasant and helpful around the house when I am wearing a skirt, so she sees some benefit. Perhaps I should follow-up and buy a super frilly French maids outfits and really offer to serve her. She would probably like me to cook, clean, and give her massages.

Since Thanksgiving is here soon, you should all know that I will be wearing skirts and dressing totally femme for the holiday as we entertain guests. The guests know about me but have not had much interaction with me as a girl. After getting up early and helping to cook in the kitchen, I will get dressed up for the big meal. I can guarantee that I will be the best dressed girl there, in a nice dress make-up and high heels. As least I will be the best dressed sissy.

Dressing in skirts at all times when not at work is really making my head spin. I can't believe that I am doing this, but I am. I will need to go shopping for more casual skirts and outfits since most of my wardrobe is dressier. And of course I will be shopping as a girl. I will be doing everything as a girl, except work.

I know that Mistress Stacey has other things in her plans to feminize and sissify me. Many of them will be humiliating. But his has a profound impact upon my psyche and lifestyle forever. Finally I must confess I am a pantywaist sissy faggot and that I love wearing womens' clothing. I am scared as heck but I am submitting to this feminization. I am a sissy boi and that is what we must do. What will be next?

Dominated by Mistress Stacey

Mistress Stacey, a tg domme, has asserted her authority over me and as a submissive sissy I must comply. I have been ordered to to regularly wear matching panties and nightgowns to bed with a bra, every night. I will start sleeping in baby doll nightgowns and shorty nightgowns with thin straps. I am to look very sissish. I already know I am not a man, but Mistress has told me I am not to be a girl either. Instead I am to be a sissy faggot male. I have also been instructed to obtain many other items to further my sissification.

There are many new items with which I am having to deal, and this is really pushing my limits. I feel weak and submissive. In addition, I find this all a bit scary, although it is also exciting. After all, I AM a pantywaist sissy. Isn't this what it is all about.

Kissy sissies

You can see in the picture here that Mistress Tammy kissed me between my breasts before we went out. It is beautiful to be wearing another girl's lipstick marks.

There is a yahoo group called 'tvskissing'. I love to be photographed kissing with another tgirl. I want to create a really sensuous but elegant series of pictures. Nothing tacky or blatant. Something with the innocence of two school girls kissing but with a touch of intense longing and desire, and everyone would know we are sissy boys in dresses and make-up. Ideally we would both be dressed in little girl dresses or something with ruffles and petticoats. (This would be nice but is not critical.) Of course we would have to post the best pictures on our blogs to show off to the world what kissy sissies we are.

I would also like to have some lingerie photos with another sissy as we kiss and press our lingerie clad bodies together. Of course the photos should be sensous and sexy, but not blatant. I like photos that are subtle and suggestive.

The photographer would have to help pose us to be sure we got good shots. I would love to find some local girls and a photographer to do this. After the photo shoot of the above ideas, I would be open to suggestions of the photographer for additional photos. I also like the idea of someone, like the photographer, watching and helping direct the action.

I want to be seen and photographed kissing with another sissy to create a delightful sissy portfolio. We would show the world what pansies we are. Are there any prissy sissy pansies that want to kiss, caress, and...?

Photo update on girlie attire at the gym

Just an update and a few pictures on my girlie gym attire. Initially I wore a complete set of women's attire that was more unisex.

My second generation of attire was more feminine and everything was a mix of pink, black and white. It also included more femme jewelry. I did get a lot of very obviously strange looks but only a few comments.

Now, my third generation of femme gym attire is nearly all pink. That's right, pink capri's, pink top, pink lipstick, pink socks, pink jewelry, all the way down to matching pink panties. The new pictures show this well. Since the pictures, I have added wide pink shoelaces and will be getting more obviously noticable feminine jewelry.

I do change in the locker room and get some odd looks. How far will I take this? I don't know. I do know that dressing in femme attire helps me keep focused on my goal of looking more feminine by being in good trim shape to fit into the extensive pretty girlie wardrobe I have. I also love looking so prissy and girlie. I continue to be such a pansy and love it so.