More thoughts on my submissive role

The first picture here is me shopping while dressed in full sissy attire. I love being dressed as a sissy in public. I am holding a new butt plug I purchased to wear to reinforce my sissy feelings. I am wearing my butt plug as I write this. In my left hand is my new bondage kit with ball gag and pink ties.


I hope you like me in my new pink bondage ties. I really need to do this more and have someone dominate me. Being in bondage makes me feel very vulnerable, however, it is also exhilarating and I relish the humiliation of being an effeminately dressed male dolled up in frilly sissy attire and tied up in bondage. I also find the feelings of vulnerability as a sissy quite desireable.

sissy buttons

I bought some sissy buttons which I recently wore with my pink sissy dress on a shopping trip. I attached two of the buttons to my dress and two to my purse. I was not only dressed like a prissy little fairy in public, but clearly advertising it as well.

Having a sissy pet

As I sit here all dolled up in my pretty pink sissy dress and frilly petticoat, I think back to when I was a child. As a young boy, I was not allowed to dress up as a pretty girl and have dolls to play with, and dress them up in cute little outfits. However,, now that I am a grown up sissy, I think it would be fun to have a grown up sissy doll. Now I am certainly in no way dominant, but think it would be fun to have a guy to dress up any way I wanted and to take pictures and parade him in public as my own dress-up doll.

But just how would I dress up my transvestite sissy doll?

I would dress my dolly boi in lots of pink and pastel shades. I would have him in girly shorts and a butterfly t-shirt. He would wear brightly colored patterned tights of stockings under his shorts. And of course he would wear 5’ high heels. First I would like to make sure my dolly boi remained recognized as a sissified male. He would always wear short masculine style hair with sideburns.

First let me say that I would be dressed as I am now, in a short little girl style dress with full petticoats and lots of bows and frills. Dressed like this we would both go shopping at the mall and hold hands as we walked. My dolly and I would stand out for sure anywhere we went. I would be in my sissy dress and my pet as a totally feminized male and recognizable as such.

Now this may be difficult for my dolly boi, being recognized as an effeminate male, but he will need to love the continued humiliation of the recognition. Almost any guy could fit this roll as my dress up doll because he would not need to pass as a girl and in fact I will be sure that the doesn’t.

I wouldn’t let him wear a bra or wig. It is important for everyone to know that my doll is an effeminate guy. I also want my sissy boi wearing some make-up and jewelry. And he should be wearing a pale pink nail polish too. He would be wearing over done jewelry and carry a pink purse.

I have some buttons that say “sissy” and “I like to wear panties”. He will wear these as well to be sure he gets full recognition of the pantywaist sissy fairy that he is. It would be such fun to be a sissy gurl with an feminized sissy male as my dress up doll.

Magazine Cover Gurl

These are some magazine covers with pictures of me on them. I think that they are so cute. I would love to have my pictures on the newsstand.

Dressing as an effeminate male in public

Dressing en femme to jury duty. 

Sseveral months ago, I had to go for jury duty. I was in a real sissy frame of mind so I decided I would go dressed in women's clothing, although it would be somewhat unisex at first glance. I made no effort to hide that I was male (e.g. no wig or bra).  Of course I wore lingerie, panties, and a camisole. I also wore black womens slacks and a flower patterned blouse. On my feet I wore a women's patterned trouser socks and womens loafers. The look was rather femme but I liked it a lot, and I did enjoy knowing that I was wearing womens clothes the whole day. I didn't get selected so this was only a one day event. I wonder if wearing women's clothing could have been a reason for not getting selected or if they even noticed.

Shopping for male clothing in femme attire

Recently, I went to buy a pair of mens shoes for work. (I have over two dozen pair of womens shoes and only two mens shoes, and those are only for work). I went to the department shoe to try on mens shoes, dressed nominally male, but wearing only womens clothing. I wore a plain dark red silk blouse with black slacks, black hose with polka dots, and women's loafers (Franco Sarto shoes). I looked nominally male, but had the enjoyment of knowing that I had on only womens attire. So that I would feel even better, I wore a tightly laced corset with garters to hold up my stockings, and a camisole. It was so delightfully constricting and added to the joy of openly wearing female attire in public as a male. No one noticed, I think. No one said anything. Of course, if you want attention, please feel free to dress as overtly feminine as possible.

New rule: When shopping for male clothing, I now must go dressed totally in womens attire but remain an obvious male.  I am only allowed to shop while wearing womens attire from now on. This is my new rule. What are you going to do to be more sissy in pulbic?


We all need to dress in womens attire more often. I did it because I like to do it and I want you all to follow my example. Take a little step today.

Lingerie Layering

This morning getting dressed for work, I was trying to decide which hose and lingerie I would wear beneath my male work attire. I always wear panties, stockings and a garter belt, but sometimes I wear other items of lingerie as well. I first put on a new pairs of seamed beige stockings and a 10 garter, garter belt. The garters are wide and this particular garter belt is very noticeable to me throughout the work day. I looked in the mirror and liked what I saw. But what else could I wear today? I felt I needed to wear more. Over the other items, I slid on a pair of pink patterned thigh highs and they covered my garter clasps. But maybe I need something constrictive to wear today so I immediately reached for my heavily boned corset. I slid it on and cinched the laces so tight I could hardly breathe.  Oh that felt so good. I knew I would enjoy wearing that to work all day. This however, presented a problem. The corset had eight garters but would have been too loose if I attached them to the pink thigh highs. Instead, I slipped on a third pair of stockings, this one white, and attached the garters of the corset to them. I finished this off by putting on a lacey white camisole and two pair of pink panties, the first pair of panties was smooth nylon, and the second had rows of pink ruffles all over. Once again, I looked in the mirror and was delighted with what I saw. I was dolled up in lingerie and tightly constricted by a corset. It really is a delight to be such an effeminate sissy. I slid on my male work clothing knowing this would affect my attitude much of the day.

So off to work I went, wearing two pair of panties, a camisole, garter belt, corset, and three pair of stockings. The stockings were delightfully held up by a total of eighteen garters. How nice.

I don’t normally layer hose and lingerie, but remembered my younger days, when I did. Back then, I wore two full slips and two pair of panties to feel the silky smooth nylon fabric slide as I moved. Perhaps I should revive this fetishistic practice. Lingerie layering is certainly not how women dress. Only sissy males do this. But that is OK, because I like being a sissified male. I think I could enjoy indulging deeper into fetishistic crossdressing.

Now tell me, “Do you wear layers of lingerie? Tell sissy gina all about it.”

Some aspects of being a sissy

Psychological factors have a strong effect on our sissy desires. I have noted three different aspects that seem to pertain to us sissies. I believe we all have some amount of each, but some are more dominant than others depending upon the individual.

Fetish – This is where our focus is on dressing and being girlie as our predominant motivation

Humiliation – Humiliation be either public, private or both. One can feel the humiliation of being sissified even without anyone seeing them. Others enjoy being sissified in public.

Service – The first thing that comes to mind here is the role of maid, where one gets pleasure/satisfaction from the domestic duties one has to perform as a maid. Of course, it could also be service to sexually please a man or sexually pleasing others in general.

My preference is fetish. I love being dolled up and girlie. I love wearing erotic outfits in public and private. For me, humiliation and service are about equal, with humiliation coming in just above service. Fetish-1, Humiliation-2, Service-3.

So tell me, how do you range yourself with respect to fetish, humiliation, and service?  Sissy gina wants to know.

sissy gina's vintage style lingerie

Well, I just received my new Bettie page style vintage lingerie form Secrets in Lace. I bought a bullet bra and a long line open bottom girdle with 6 garters, all in a leopard print. And I bought some lovely stockings to go with it. When the lingerie arrived, I just had to try it on immediately and take some pictures, a few of which I post here. This is my first vintage style lingerie, but it won't be my last. This is very different from my usually lingerie style, but a sissy must diversify when something pretty comes along.

 

I am so delighted with my purchase, that I think I will wear my new girdle to work tomorrow with a pair of sheer black stockings and black panties. The girdle will provide such a snug fit and the garters will keep my stockings nice and taut. It will undoubtedly make me feel divine as I work.

New Years Resolutions

Dear sissies, it is now the New Year and time to make resolutions to progress our feminization and sissification. Earlier in the year I decided that I would be wearing stockings and a garter belt to work in addition to panties and womens socks. This year I plan to focus more on waist control. While I am fairly slender, I still want to lose a few pounds to look more femme. So I will also increase the time at work when I wear a waist cincher or corset. Also, I love the feeling of tight restrictive feminine garments and realize that I should wear such clothing more often. To help accomplish this, just yesterday I went lingerie shopping at the mall and bought several additional waist cinchers. When added to the ones I have, I will be better able to feel the tight restricting hold of feminine lingerie as I work. This constriction along with the tug of my garters holding my stockings taut, will keep me reminded of my submissive sissy status. What are you going to do this year to increase your sissy mindset?

More sissy shopping - changing a goth dress to a sissy style

Well, I decided I needed a new sissy dress, and I like to buy clothes in person to try them on, so I trotted off in a pair of 5" heels to one of my local fetish stores, Erotic Cabaret. They didn't really have what I wanted but I tried on a few cute girly outfits. I tried on a goth style dress in black, and asked the sales girl about the fit. She said it is an unusual fit. To me it seemed rather high waisted, and it laced up the back, and it certainly didn't fit the sissy style I wanted. But then I had an idea. I strode out of the dressing room in the short black goth dress and asked the salesgirl if she would get down a pink petticoat for me. I put it on with the dress and I liked the look. I already had a lot of pink accessories and decided if I could buy a few more accessories in pink, that I could have a nice pink and black outfit. So I bought a pink bracelet, pink eye shadow to go with the dress and petticoat. I already owned 5" pink high heels, pink collar and some other items. Pink nail polish and lipstick from the drug store completed the outfit. So I took a goth dress and made it into a sissy dress. Tell me if you think I did OK and tell me if there are any other things I can do to make the sissy look even more over-the-top femme.

Sissy shopping

sissy shopping at DareWare

Last night I went shopping to four stores in my pink sissy dress looking for a white garter belt with eight garters. I didn't find one but told all the sales people what I was looking for. When I left and didn't find the garter belt, I told each of them, "Thank you but I didn't find the garter belt I was looking for. Mistress is going to be very angry with me."

At DareWare I bought a butt plug, and a pink restraint kit. When I bought the items I told the salesgirl that, "Mistress wanted me to buy these items that were going to be used on me. Would you please take a few pictures to show that I have complied with her wishes?" Since the girl there knows me as a regular, she was happy to comply. A Mistress didn't tell me to do this but I thought it was an interesting thing to say and clearly marked me as not only a sissy but a submissive one. I also bought stockings and told her that "I needed these three new pair of new stockings since I have to wear stockings and a garter belt every day. The garter belts you have with four garters are too plain. I want one with eight garters, it is more erotic."

When I am out as a sissy, I feel I should not hide or cringe. I need to be up front with the fact that I am a pantywaist sissy. I need to go more places dressed as a sissy. In my over-the-top sissy attire, I mostly go to do shopping at fetish stores and to gay bars, but really feel I should portray myself as a sissy at other times as well, and am open to suggestions from my readers. Ideally I would love to go out with another similarly dressed sissy. I think that would be much more fun and we would probably be open to being more adventuresome. I love dressing like a prissy little fairy in public and feel so good when displaying myself in such a feminine and erotic way. When going out last night I got a lot of stares, and I do mean stares, which I think is good. Sissies are made to be on display and to please.

The attached pictures were taken last night at DareWare. In the first picture, you can see I am holding my new butt plug and pink restraint kit. In the second, you should note the cute pink purse I bought on a previous trip to DareWare. It is in the shape of a pink high heeled boot, and I think it is such a sweet sissy accessory.

sissy gina's attire rules

sissy gina's attire rules

When not at work:
I wear only women's attire. I dress, act, and live as a girl. More than half the time I wear high heels to keep my feet in good condition and to remind myself I am a pantywaist. Often I wear women's jeans and a nice top, but I need to work harder at wearing a skirt more often. Sissies wear skirts.

When I am at work:
1. I may only wear men's outer attire, and must wear only women's attire beneath.
2. To work I must wear panties, garter belt with stockings, and women's socks. The garter belt and stockings are a new permanent addition and I have done this continuously for over six weeks. Often I do not feel like donning stockings and garter belt in the morning. But the nice thing about developing new habits is that you don't have to think about it too much and just do it instinctively. I am also trying to more wear a waist cincher or corset more regularly too. Maybe this will become the next item to wear all the time.
3. I must wear at least as many items of women's attire as men's, no exceptions. So if I need to wear a man's coat and tie on occasion, I must add additional feminine items such as a camisole, waist cincher, or corset to fit the rule.

To bed:
I must wear panties, bra, and nightgown every night.

I must keep my toe nails polished a pretty red at all times. This is especially important in the summer because I now often wear open toed high heeled sandals nearly all the time so my pretty polished toe nails show.

These rules are to insure my feminization and sissification. The continuous wearing of multiple items of feminine attire reinforces my sissy feelings.

Sissy lipstick

Sissy lipstick
As a sissy, I find it helpful to wear a long wear lipstick so my lips stay nice and girly. I use CoverGirl "Outlast" lipstick. It stays on all day and does not come off when you eat, kiss, etc. It was terrible when I had to constantly replace my lipstick. It wasn't the constant application that was a problem, but the fact that sometimes I did not look my most feminine best. Surely some of you enjoy leaving a red or pink lipstick ring around a man's hard cock. But I think it is better to keep your lips a pretty red at all times. A sissy should always look good, especially for a man.

Other companies make similar kinds of lipstick (such as Revlon's "ColorStay") and I have tried several with comparable results. The lipstick doesn't come off easily, but if you put on some lip chap and wipe it off with a tissue, repeating this a few times, it will come off.

There is also a new kind of long wear lipstick by CoverGirl called a lip stain. I haven't yet tried this but I bet if works great too. Any of you sissies effeminate and prissy enough to try this lip stain and report back how it works?

So my sissy girlfriends, try some long wear sissy lipstick. It keeps you looking your femme best all day or night.

Exploring our sissy side

Yes my sissy side is my fantasy in which I occasionally indulge. I don’t know if I could be a submissive sissy 24/7, but exploring that deep hidden dark side of my personality is intensely erotic. It is the means through which I see myself sexually. It is my sexual expression and no other aspect of my personality satisfies my sexual needs. Typically I like to be a conservative, classy woman. But the decadent sissy always comes back out, wanting to be ultra feminine, ultra sexy, and an exaggeratedly feminine girl. I want to be viewed sexually even if that means as an object of sexual pleasure.

This is a side of me that I have not adequately explored and which begs me to open the door to the dark unknown corridor leading me somewhere uncertain. Perhaps that is what some of us like about being sissies. It is the dark unknown side of our selves which is taboo, but begs to be discovered. I like the idea of being an intelligent educated person willing to give up control and be submissive. Perhaps this is part of what forced feminization is about. It is something we really want, except that someone else pushes us beyond the limits that we would have for ourselves. I know that if it had not been for several Mistresses pushing my limits at different times, I would not be where I am today. I just needed a little push at different times.

Wearing stockings and garters on a regular basis

Hi again, this is sissy gina, a femmy little pantywaist sissy male. Like many of you, I progress my feminization in steps, but right now I am on a plateau. I have encouraged some of you to take steps to move your sissification forward. I am stuck in one spot and think I need to take some other steps too. I think a good next step would be to wear stockings and garters belts to work on a regular basis, under my male clothes. When not at work, I dress exclusively as a woman. When at work, I wear panties and womens socks and on occasion I wear stockings and garter belt, a camisole, corset, or waist cincher. I think I should be wearing stockings and garters on a regular basis.

Why focus on stockings and garters? Stockings and garter belts are sexy feminine items worn more by sissies than women, and a sissy can feel the tug of the stockings against the garters as they walk. This is what I want, to feel the tug of my stockings pulling on the garters as I walk down the corridors at work. When I sit to pee in a stall and I am wearing stockings and garter, I ask myself, “Why do I do this?” I admit to myself that I am a sissy but sometimes I feel so ridiculous doing this. Simply put, I think that wearing feminine items more often will reinforce sissy behavior.

Since I have to wear male clothing to work, I want to be constantly reminded that I am not a man, but an effeminate sissy. Wearing additional feminine lingerie at work will do that and help me be a better sissy.

We need to continually push our limits and I am hoping you will help me push mine and that you will also make a commitment to take a small mincing little sissy step to be more feminine.

Women's clothing as art

I found a site called Polyvore, where you can take select clothing and accessories from web sites and put them together into a montage. So I tried making a somewhat sissy style version with petticoats, high heels and lingerie. An interesting experiment in using women's clothing as art. Of course I prefer womens clothing as wearable art but this is nice too.

My New Corset

As one of the many little things I decided to do to be a better sissy, I bought a corset. I have an older one but this one is so nicely constricting. It wasn't cheap, $240, but it is tight lacing and has eight garters. I have been wearing it weekly to work. The corset serves as a constant reminder of my sissification as I work throughout the day. It is impossible not to notice the tug of my garters on my stockings as I walk. Notice that I am also wearing ruffled black panties. They are so cute too.

I went to purchase the corset after work so I was dressed as a male. Before I went into the store, I took off my socks and shoes and slipped on a pair of high heels. I also donned some lipstick and lots of jewelry. Beneath my male slacks I wore black panties, a garter belt and stockings. I walked around as a male in high heels ad selected the corset I wanted to try on. I tried two different sizes. When I found the one I thought would work I asked the young salesgirl if she could help me lace it up. She laced me up quite tightly and I asked her to keep making it as tight as possible. I told her I would take the corset and wear it home, and I did so after attaching the eight garters of the corset to my stockings.

I wish to remind you all how much I like being a pantywaist sissy male and wearing womens lingerie. It is such a turn-on for me and I love displaying myself publicly in lingerie. A corset gives such a feeling of constriction and submissiveness. It is hard to find any item of lingerie more erotic. This constricting garment is of course topped off by the tugging of the garters against the hose. It feels so erotic and sexy. I love being a sissy.

Should I be bound?

The first photo is of me in lingerie on the couch. The ties are nearby and I know they will be used on me. The next photo is of me on the bed in light bondage. Being in this position makes me feel vulnerable and submissive. I have not pursued bondage, but sometimes I wonder if it would cause me to be a better sissy. There are so many possible directions to go. I don't know whether I should be more of a prancing effeminate sissy in little girl dresses, a prancing french maid, a tied-up sissy doll, an effeminately dressed sissified male, or a more normal femmy girl. Should I have a master, a mistress, take inspirations and ideas from others, get together with other sissies, or wander as a sissy on my own following various paths and ideas?

small sissy lifestyle upgrades

For the past 8 months, I have not posted much on my blog due to lots of long work hours and other commitments. Occasionally I get on a plateau about my sissy activities and now I need to recommit to upgrading my femme lifestyle. Although I live as a girl except at work, there are a lot of little things to do to continually push the envelope of femininity (something you should all do too). Some of the things I plan to do between now and the end of the year are below. They are pre-New Year’s resolutions.

Wear my hair longer. Consider getting a perm. In fact I just got a perm this Saturday. It looks great for me as a girl. I don’t know how it will look when I dress as a male for work, but we will see. Last time I had a perm, some of the women at work noticed and commented. In any case, I got the perm, I like it, and everyone will see it. I intend to continue doing a lot of little things to continually look more feminine, even as a male as work.

I hereby commit to getting my ears pierced over Christmas. My wife doesn’t approve of me doing this, but I am going to do it anyway. It is about time I had my ears pierced.

I need to be wearing stockings and a garter belt to work more often. It will remind me during the day that I am a sissy. This is something all us sissies need to do more.

I need to go back to DareWare (fetish clothing store) to check out femme fetish clothing while dressed as a slightly effeminate male. I would go after work in male work attire but wear stockings, have on 3” high heels, jewelry & lipstick. It will be obvious I am a sissy. I need to buy a new garter belt. I will try it on and wear it home with a pair of new stockings that I will also buy.

I need to buy a new tightly laced corset with garters. I should do this as an effeminately dressed male. Erotic Cabaret would be the best choice for this. When I buy a corset, I should wear stockings with a nice new garter belt and ruffled panties, all in black. I have tried on corsets in the past, and the salesgirls have always helped laced them up for me.

Since I dress as a girl at home all the time, I should dress more femmy as a girl. Specifically I should do more pinks. I have a cute outfit of pink capris and coordinating pink top that I just love. I should focus more on these types of outfits as a girl.

Fix up the spare room and make it very femme. I will use lacy curtains with flowers and get fashion pictures of women or pictures of high heels, accessories, etc. The room should be made over the top feminine. I don’t care who sees it, even my parents. This will be my study.

This is only a partial list of items, but are a good start for the rest of the year. I also need to upgrade my sissy attire and lingerie. That will come next. I am open to ideas for sissy attire and lingerie I should have or get more of.

Traveling en femme

Recently I went on an Alaska cruise with my family. Of course I went as a girl only. My wife was concerned about needing to show my passport as we went across the US Canadian borders and suggested that I dress as a male for that part of the trip. But I said I would do no such thing. I refused to wear or even have any male attire for the trip. Recently I had to renew my passport. I had several photos taken and chose one that had my longish hair slightly fluffed up so it could be more femme. I went through both US and Canadian passport control without any problems.

The only other minor events that happened were that, one security person checking my boarding pass asked, “Are you Kevin Grey?” I told him yes and that was it. Another time I set off the metal detector. The male security agent told me to step aside and called out “I need a female pat-down please.” A women security guard came over and patted me down around my bust and waist. She noted the metal in my push-up bra and then let me go. I was certainly flattered and thrilled to get a female pat down.

As I reported in earlier blogs I also have a driver’s license with my hair slightly fluffed up and wearing make-up and jewelry and a blouse. This is just a femmy male ID.

In addition, I have a state ID card with me fully dressed as a girl with a long wig, make-up, jewelry, and totally femmed. All the documents have my real name as it would be illegal otherwise. I use this femme ID for domestic travel. It is totally legal and OK to do this in Texas. When I use it for domestic travel, even air travel, no one cares because the picture matches me and the name on my ID matches the ticket name. No one ever says anything about this and I often get called ma’am.